I am too shy in bed. Most of the time I don’t even bother having sex at all because I’m so nervous about initiating something.

Talking dirty? No way. I can’t even say “Let’s have sex” without feeling extremely self conscious.

We’ve been together six months and we’ve done barely anything. There’s so much I want to try but I don’t know how to start. This problem is growing larger and I’m too much of a wimp to do anything about it. I try to talk to her and it comes out all wrong and by the end of it I’ve only said a tenth of what I wanted to say.

Why can’t I be the kind of guy who just DOES things instead of thinking endlessly about it? I’m going to lose her and it’ll be completely my own fault.

DS